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Certified love attraction coach, Meg Register, is a spiritual practitioner and counselor. She adopted The 7 Steps to Soulmate Love from her teacher and mentor, Kathryn Alice, another licensed spiritual practitioner and author of Love Will Find You. Meg lives and treats clients in the Los Angeles area.
Step 1
Remove everything in the way of love: beliefs, people, vibrations and superstitions.
This is where you cleanse all your attachments to ex boyfriends or girlfriends, and rid your consciousness of negative beliefs about love. Meg urges people to get a journal and write down all their negative beliefs about relationships and love and burn them if you can. Replace those thoughts with positive affirmations about love.
Step 2
Give up trying to figure out how.
Meg emphasizes the fact that faith is a huge part of her teachings. And once a client has gotten rid of all their limiting beliefs they need to stop worrying about how it will all work out. Trust in the Law of Attraction is imperative and here is where you must start practicing that trust.
Step 3
Line up with who you really are. “This is all an inside job,” says Meg. This is where you evaluate if you are being true to yourself. For example, if you are on a dating site you should present yourself in the most honest way possible. If you are lying about who you are, you are telling the universe that you are not good enough and that will attract the wrong partner, says Meg. Take care of yourself and treat yourself with respect and you will attract that in a mate.
Step 4
Give thought to who your One is.
“You have to have good boundaries, know what you want, and build a template for you soulmate,” says Meg. This can be writing love letters to them or listing qualities you want to manifest. Meg will help her clients do this step around session 3 or 4.
Step 5
Send out a soul call.
Once you have defined the qualities you want in a mate, you can start preparing for their arrival. This can be as simple as buying an extra tooth brush for your soulmate to use when they arrive or you can even practice making dinner for the both of you. Act as if they have already arrived.
Step 6
Do only that which feels good.
“Insecure and lonely attracts the same,” says Meg. So stay pumped up and keep yourself happy so that you attract more of the same.
Step 7
Exercise patience and be happy.
Another lesson in trust, no one can tell you how to do it; you just have to decide to have faith.
(Photo Illustration by Amber-Rose Kelly)
